Transgender Day of Visibility or TDOV is a day to show your support for the trans community. TDOV started in 2010 and takes place every year on March 31. Whether you personally know transgender/gender diverse people or simply want to show your support for those living as their authentic selves, TDOV is a chance to learn, embrace, and celebrate. With the ongoing challenges and attacks faced by the trans community, it’s more important than ever to stand up and celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility.
What does it mean to be Transgender/Trans?
Transgender/Trans: an umbrella term for people whose gender identity and/or expression is different from what might be expected based on their sex assigned at birth (male, female or intersex). Often times to match their outer appearance to how they feel inside some trans people will change the way they look and some may choose not to for a variety of different reasons. Gender Identity is someone’s personal sense of their own gender and where they identify on the gender spectrum (man, woman, or gender diverse). For transgender people, the sex they were assigned at birth and their own internal gender identity may not always be the same
Words matter.
As times have evolved, so has language. It is important to know how to use inclusive language because it can validate the existence of gender diverse people and their identities. Sometimes it can be confusing to know what word or phrases are correct. If you are not sure what words to use, that’s ok. You can learn from a variety of different LGBTQ+ centers around your community and continue to practice.
Talk about gender pronouns
You may have heard someone ask something along the lines of “what are your pronouns?” Pronouns are words like she, her, he, him, they, them and many other variations. Gender inclusive pronouns are pronouns that are not specifically gendered and can be utilized when referring to someone in third person. They are a linguistic tool that is an easy way to show others we are respecting their identity. However, it is best to ask someone what their pronouns are. This allows everyone to be more comfortable being themselves! You can start by sharing your own pronouns.
Tips for Allies of Transgender People
- You can’t tell if someone is transgender just by looking
- Don’t make assumptions about a transgender person’s sexual orientation
- Don’t ask a transgender person what their “real name” is
- Respect the terminology a transgender person uses to describe their identity
- Don’t ask about a transgender person’s genitals, surgical status, or sex life
- Listen to Transgender people and support what they need to feel safe and empowered
How to Celebrate TDOV
- Go to or plan an event! Check out events in your area of plan an event! You could host an event on your high school campus or even just bring up information about trans rights with your friends.
- Learn the difference between gender identity, gender expression, sex assigned at birth, and sexuality. Not sure what they all mean? Check out the Gender Unicorn to learn more!
- Learn about trans inclusive terminology.
- Speak up when someone says something transphobic!
- Show your support on social media.
Share resources, stand up for trans rights, and use your voice on social media.