Sex can be an awkward topic to bring up with your partner, but the more you’re on the same page when it comes to taking things to the next level, the better it will be for both of you, and the more likely you will be prepared to do it safely!
Some things you and your partner may want to discuss together include:
- What does having sex for the first time with your partner mean to you? Are you on the same page about your feelings for each other? Are you afraid of getting hurt or of complicating the relationship with sex?
- How are you prepared to prevent unwanted pregnancy and STDs? Where will you get this protection? Do you know where the nearest clinic is?
- Are you prepared to deal with an unwanted pregnancy? Do you know where you can find emergency contraception if your protection fails?
- What are your expectations and desires? Do you feel comfortable talking to your partner about what you want in order to make sex an enjoyable and safe experience? Do you feel comfortable that your partner will respect your decision if you change your mind and don’t want to have sex?
Get more tips on how to talk to your partner about sex and how to know when you're ready.