Summer is right around the corner (woo hoo!) meaning longer days, more time for fun, and maybe even a summer hookup are in your near future. There's nothing wrong with having a little (or a lot) of fun this summer...it's just important to play it safe by being prepared for whatever comes your way.
New Summer Hookup?
Daydreaming about a summer fling? Not so fast. If you are planning to hookup with someone new, make sure you have both been tested for STDs and use protection, including condoms and birth control, to prevent STDs and unintended pregnancy. Before you even think about hooking up, make sure you are both on the same page. Every time two people have sex, it's important they consent to having sex BEFORE things get physical. Learn more about consent here.
Planning to Party?
If you know you're going to be at parties where there are drugs and/or alcohol, make a game plan ahead of time. Make sure you attend with friends you trust, stay together, and make sure someone stays sober so that they can drive you safely to and from the party at any time.
Remember, a person who is under the influence of alcohol or drugs cannot legally give consent. This is for good reason because it's impossible to think and communicate clearly when you are drunk or high. You may not be able to clearly say what you want. Sometimes you might be completely out of control of your actions. You may forget to wear a condom, use a condom incorrectly, or put your and your partner’s health at risk in some other way. The solution? Have (consensual) sex before you go to that party or save it for the morning after.
Unfortunately, some people use alcohol and/or drugs as an “excuse” for their own violent actions, and some sexual predators may even intentionally drug you.
If you think you may have been assaulted while under the influence, find help near you.
Have fun!
It's NOT fun worrying about the risks that come with unprotected sex or sex under the influence. Planning ahead so that you can have more fun this summer is totally worth it.